Anna Murray Douglass, first wife of Frederick Douglass. Image online, courtesy U.S. National Park Service.
Anna Murray was born of slaves and would have been a slave herself had she entered the world one month earlier. Frederick met his future wife while he was still in bondage; she helped him attain his dream of escape with money she had saved. At the time, his name was still Frederick Bailey.
Her courage, her sympathy at the start was the main-spring that supported the career of Frederick Douglass. As is the condition of most wives her identity became merged into that of her husband. Thus only the few of their friends in the North really knew and appreciated the full value of the woman who presided over the Douglass home for forty-four years.
The Narrative of the Life of Frederick Douglass, an American Slave - originally published in 1845, and naming slaveholders who had made life miserable for Douglass - caused Frederick to leave the country:
The narrative of Frederick Douglass with its bold utterances of truth, with the names of the parties with whom he had been associated in slave life, so incensed the slaveholders that it was doubtful if ever he would return to this country. There was also the danger that mother and those who had aided in his escape might be pursued.
doomed by an inveterate prejudice against color to insult and outrage on every hand ... - denied the privileges and courtesies common to others in the use of the most humble means of conveyance - shut out from the cabins on steamboats - refused admission to respectable hotels - caricatured, scorned, scoffed, mocked, and maltreated, with impunity by any one, (no matter how black his heart,) so he has a white skin.
Notwithstanding the treatment he and his family received, his motto for living was the same as the motto of his North Star paper:
Right is of no sex
Truth is of no color
God is the Father of us all, and
All we are brethren.
Her life in Rochester was not less active in the cause of the slave, if anything she was more self-sacrificing, and it was a long time after her residence there before she was understood. The atmosphere in which she was placed lacked the genial cordiality that greeted her in her Massachusetts home.. Prejudice in the early 40's [that is, the 1840s]in Rochester ran rampant and mother became more distrustful...Being herself one of the first agents of the Underground Railroad she was an untiring worker along that line...She was a woman strong in her likes and dislikes and had large discernment as to the character of those who came around her.
Perhaps no other home received under its roof a more varied class of people than did our home. From the highest dignitaries to the lowliest person, bond or free, white or black, were welcomed, and mother was equally gracious to all.
Although Anna was born free, she was not educated:
Unfortunately an opportunity for a knowledge of books had been denied to her, the lack of which she greatly deplored. Her increasing family[she and Frederick ultimately had five children]and household duties prevented any great advancement, altho’ she was able to read a little...I was instructed to read to her. She was a good listener...
Working hard to abolish American slavery, Frederick had become friends with abolitionists like William Lloyd Garrison, John Brown, Wendell Phillips, and Senator Charles Sumner. Those people, together with Douglass’ considerable oratory skills, helped propel this former slave into the national limelight.